Does a White Streak Follow a Black Streak? Or Not?

There are moments in each of our lives when it seems like everything is going wrong. Problems at work, in our personal lives, with our health—everything is falling apart. We say, «Well, the black streak has begun». And we wait with hope for it to end so that the «white streak» can finally begin. We believe that after a failure, there will necessarily be success, and after misfortune, there will be happiness. But what if that's not the case? What if a «white streak» isn't a gift from fate but the result of our own efforts and changes? And what if a «black streak» isn't a punishment but a signal to take action?

From a psychological perspective, our life isn't a series of random «black» and «white» streaks. It's the result of our mindset, our beliefs, and our behavior. We, unconsciously, create these streaks ourselves. And if we don't change our attitude toward life, we'll constantly go around in the same circle. In this article, we'll explain how psychology accounts for the phenomenon of «black» and «white» streaks and give you practical steps that will help you learn to control your life.

1. Why Doesn't a «Black Streak» End?

When we find ourselves in a difficult situation, we often feel like a victim. We think that «we're unlucky,» that «life is unfair.» This victim position robs us of the power and ability to change anything. And this creates a vicious cycle. Here's what happens:

• We don't look for solutions; we look for people to blame. We blame other people, circumstances, or fate for our problems. But this doesn't solve the problem; it only makes it worse.
• We focus on the negative. When we're in a «black streak,» we only see the bad. We only notice failures and problems, ignoring all the good things in our lives.
• We're inactive. We wait for everything to get better on its own. But life doesn't work that way. Only action can change the situation.

Thus, a «black streak» won't end until we stop being a victim. It won't pass on its own; it will only get stronger. And only by taking responsibility for our lives can we get out of it.

2. How to Create Your Own «White Streak»?

If you want to change your life and get out of your «black streak,» you must stop waiting and start acting. Your task is not to wait for a «white streak» but to create it with your own hands. Here are a few practical steps that will help you with this:

1. Step 1: Change your attitude toward problems.
   • Problems are not a failure but a challenge. Stop seeing problems as a punishment. See them as an opportunity for growth and development.
   • Ask yourself: «What can I learn from this situation?» This will help you not get stuck on the problem but look for a solution.
2. Step 2: Create a «positive momentum.»
   • Start small. Don't try to «move mountains» all at once. Start with the smallest actions: drink a cup of delicious tea, go for a 15-minute walk, or read one page of a book.
   • Celebrate your victories. Keep a journal and write down every time you complete a small goal. This will give you a sense of satisfaction and gradually bring back your motivation.
3. Step 3: Work on your beliefs.
   • Become aware of your negative beliefs. Sit in silence and think about what you really think about yourself, your abilities, and life.
   • Rephrase them. Instead of «I'm a loser,» say «I can handle this task.» Instead of «I'm unlucky,» say «I create my own luck.»
4. Step 4: Get out of your comfort zone.
   • Start doing what scares you. New opportunities, new people, new successes—all of this is outside your comfort zone. Be ready for risk and change.
   • Accept challenges. When life offers you something new, say «yes.» Even if it's scary. It is in such moments that growth happens.

A «white streak» won't necessarily follow a «black streak.» It will only come when you create it yourself. Stop waiting and start taking action. And every step you take, every decision you make, and every thought you have brings you closer to the life you dream of. Only you can change your life, and no one else will do it for you.

We've discussed that our life is not a predetermined script but a set of beliefs that we can change. We've seen that the root of bad luck is in our internal blocks, not in external circumstances. Understanding this is, of course, an important step. But what do you do next? How do you translate this knowledge into real-life changes? I once found myself in a similar situation, where I had a lot of theoretical knowledge, but my life was not getting better. This is what prompted me to create the step-by-step guide «The Labyrinth of Life.» This book is a practical guide that will help you not only understand the causes of your failures but also start taking action to permanently get out of your «black streak» and get your life back on track. To begin your journey toward change, simply go to the very beginning, to the «Introduction» section.